Found him on a dating site
I was wondering if you could help me with something that has been playing on my mind recently…It recently transpired that my boyfriend of 15 months has been looking at girls on a dating website that he used to use before he met me.I’m not sure if you met on Tinder and if you took your profile down and he didn’t, but at two months, he probably wasn’t ready to be exclusive, or he would have said so.When a man wants a woman to be his, he does what it takes to make her is girlfriend.Three days after I had our daughter, he was on two of his ex girlfriends’ Facebook pages! He thinks I overreact but I don’t because it hurts me! Hides his phone whenever someone calls and when I ask who it is, he says “don’t worry about it, you’re too nosy!
A lot of people continue to DATE others for several weeks or months until such time as they decide they want to date one person exclusively.Many relationships breakup at the three-month point, as some people only like the beginning stages of a relationship and don’t want to get serious. He might have told you what you wanted to hear, but he didn’t come out and ask you first to be in a committed relationship, although he said he wasn’t seeing anyone else. You also don’t know if this morning when he said he loved how he felt with you, that he had swiped for the last time and was ready to delete his Tinder account, right? There’s a saying, “Seek and ye shall find.” Why did you create a fake Tinder profile to try to catch him? You felt insecure about your relationship status early on and didn’t trust him.From where he sat, he probably enjoyed dating you and hadn’t moved to a more serious stage yet. You were happy enough with him to want your relationship to be exclusive. Chances are he wanted to see where the relationship was going to go and got caught up in the game. If you’re sleeping together, he also might not want to give that up. Probably because you weren’t sure he wanted to be exclusive with you. You wanted to catch him and behind HIS back, logged on as a fake person to see if he’d take the bait. No guy wants to feel like his girlfriend is checking up on him, even if it’s innocent.My husband and I have been together 3 years, married for 2! When I was around 5 months pregnant, I went through his phone and found him talking to girls but he said that they were just friends he worked with.Since then, I have caught him on porn sites, dating sites, F*ckbook, live porn shows, and this & that.